Saturday, 28 November 2015

Inside Out

There's a thing that we all do - We Pretend.Whether it's in front of our parents, our friends or whomsoever we meet. At times even I'm confused by the way I act or behave in a situation which never demanded that. And it is not a one person thing, we all somewhere at some point face this. So do we lack confidence or do we underestimate ourselves?
What we do is we pretend to be someone else. We meet some persons and we try to be impressive in front of them. This even happens to me, my hand shakes and my head shivers. On due analysis of the situation I found that it wasn't due to lack of confidence or something like that. It was because at some point I tried to be the one I wasn't.
This usually happens because we become conscious to other person's expressions. We see ourselves from that person's point of view. And thus we behave differently. This could sometimes put all our efforts in vain.
Being yourself is not hard, it's all about being REAL and stop pretending. Yes there are times when it's not easy but if you are what you are and you feel free to show it to the world no one can ever stop you from becoming the best. Since you would be the one of your kind.
Because between What people think about who you are and What you portrays them. There's someone hiding, Someone The Real You. So If you are here to impress people then better know that people will criticize you anyway. Have guts and face them with what u really are. Someone The Real You.

Today's Motivation Mantra - It gets harder and complicated if you try to pretend in every situation. It's better to face the world with what you really are rather than portraying them a different image. Be Yourself.

Friday, 27 November 2015

Quitting vs. Starting Over

There has always been a confusion when you have to choose between continuing a job,or a relationship or something like that or you just don't want it anymore. And making a decision has never been so easy.
We do think of quitting some times when the things don't work according to us anymore and then we think of all its and buts, we think of what people would say, we think of all stupid things like this. But let me tell you that there's always a difference between choosing to quit and starting over again.
Quitting is easy, maintaining it is the hardest part. Is it really so?
You don't have a passion for your job and still you are doing it, you don't wanna be with someone who treats you badly and still you are looking for the ways to be with them, you don't like your job and still you do that job day and night with no pleasure. And then you say you should NEVER QUIT.
I find that illogical. I call it an act of coward. Since you are afraid to take a step beyond that and out of the people's fear, So you continue to be there.And you think it's like being courageous.
Not really, sometimes when you choose to be out of the things that don't give you pleasure anymore, that don't teach you new things everyday anymore, the things you don't have that die hard passion for. You should leave them right there and it won't be called as Quitting, it would be a new start.
And may be one day, just one day when you wake up in the morning happy and with all that passion to learn, to do your job, to love things and people around you. You would know that making a decision was never wrong, correctly it was never right then.

Today's Motivation Mantra - Starting over again has never been so easy neither quitting a job is. If you lack passion and motivation to do your job you know it's going wrong somewhere and that's a point where making a decision is must.

Wednesday, 25 November 2015

The First Time

There's always a moment when you have to confront a situation, or someone for the first time. Like I'm here writing this. I do it often but this is different.
 Not to mention all the planning we do, all the ways we search for so that we could make an impression or just to start well. As it's said "the first impression is the last impression".
So have you ever thought why it goes wrong even when you did a lot of planning or you searched for the best way out of all. Where does it all go wrong?
Well! No where. You can still be the best even when it didn't work out in the first time, you can still succeed even when you failed in the first one, you can get over the situation even when what you thought for the first time was not so effective. What are you waiting for - A Miracle, that happens only in fairytale.
They all say no one's going to come to save you, only you can. And that's right. Your first time didn't went right, fine. Give it an another try. Nobody's going to ask you how you started but everyone's gonna see how you ended. So here's it,

Today's Motivation Mantra - It's not that first impression is always the last one. It's not what you lost in the first time but it's always what you gained at the end and how well you ended it.